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Bruce 'Zen' Benefiel, MA, MBA, TLC
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Abductee, Contactee, Near-Death & Spiritually Transformative Experiences

abductee, contactee, near-death, spiritually transformative experiences

There are some areas of service that are very rare in today's offerings in coaching, counseling or therapy of any kind for that matter, especially regarding consciousness. These areas include abductee, contactee, near-death (NDE) and spiritually transformative (STE) experiences that have been on the leading edge of conscious evolution, yet have found too much skepticism from traditional professionals that a huge area of service delivery remains open and unaddressed, let alone unserviced.

Many folks who experience greater sensitivity due to their experiences often get caught up in scenarios that can become chaotic, such as paying attention to the 'channelings' and ramblings of others who focus on countering the perceived duality in the world, i.e. the New World Order that is out to control and manipulate others for selfish ends. We all know what you put your attention on grows stronger. Don't you have better things to do? How about putting your life in your hands where it belongs?

I spoke at the International Association for Near Death Studies (IANDS) annual conference in 2010, even though my time was reduced from a hour to 20 mintues. You'll notice the two videos to the left from YouTube. I made adjustments on the fly and participated in a short panel discussion afterward. I'm not ashamed to say I've been a contactee since childhood, suffering the normal incredulous comments, gazes and rejection of folks across the gamut of personal and professional realms. I'm actually quite outspoken because my experience is solid, including garnering the wisdom beyond the experiences.

New discussion groups about extraterrestrials or Visitors are popping up on the web, but they remain small in terms of numbers with maybe a couple hundred members. Perhaps they are not well known enough, but it is my experience that folks are led to where they need to be once they start asking relevant questions. Spiritually transformative experiences begin with synchronicity in most cases. It is the desire to connect that fuels the machinery of manifestation. You can reach Zen by clicking here.

I'm honored to call Travis Walton a friend. I may have assisted in his transformation over the years because I recognized his angst from his experience, but asked him if he experienced or perceived any real threat while he was on board. He came to realize that he did not and eventually came to understand that 'they' saved his life after he'd been in the unfortunate position of becoming a grounding rod for the static electricity that was built up in preparation for departure. He was unconscious during most of his stay, which was about as long as one would remain in the hospital after being struck by lightning. Now his has a completely different perspective.

I've managed to have some fairly demanding jobs as well asCosmic Conundrum: Who am I? earn two master's degrees in business, which is not common among experiencers. I am a prolific writer and have taught journalism to high school students. One of the best things I can offer to those on the quest for discovery of self is a workbook I created called "Cosmic Conundrum: Who am I?" which is available by clicking on the image. Over 40 years of contemplation and personal tools are included, along with journal prompts (gets you to examine your view) and some powerful exercises that help to move the mind beyond chaos.

As a conscious professional who bridges worlds often, such as facilitating multi-million dollar road and bridge  construction partnering workshops (google 'partnering facilitator'), teaching business plan writing to healing arts practitioners, producing and hosting television shows or running the operations for huge public events, I've proven an 'experiencer' can indeed find balance and productivity in the real world... even success. If I can, so can you. You might begin by reading 'Creating Serendipity' - click on the image to the right to download it now.

abductee, contacee, near-death, spiritually transformative experiencesNow the terms abductee and contactee are used mainly in the 'UFO' community while the near-death and spiritually transformative are used in more clinical environments, sometimes associated with the study of consciousness. Each has its inherent challenges with the 'experiencer' and expertise to help one find balance of any kind simply cannot come from anyone outside the direct experience of such events. I spoke at the IANDS annual conference recently (Sept. 2010) regarding these very elements of interconnectivity and the transcendence of consciousness. I mention contactee, near-death and spiritually transformative experiences and introduce the Ashtar Command and Galactic Federation to the group. I seemed to be well-received.

Some help may be offered by traditional means, however the insights and intuition of a fellow 'experiencer' are priceless in the process. Since childhood, I've had contactee, near-death and spiritual experiences that have regularly transformed my life. If you are open and willing, I can be a great asset. I'm availabe for groups, individuals and by phone, Skype and in person. If you live in the US and have a small group of folks that need help, my rates are very affordable and not much above travel expenses. I'm a great facilitator for bridging worlds.

abductee, contactee, near death experience, spiritually transformative experienceIf you are here now, then you have a sense of being led to where you need to go and to whom you need to connect in order to advance in your own growth and understanding. Asking the question, "Are UFOs real?"  or "Am I a contactee?" seems superfluous now doesn't it? Very few people have the courage to stand up and admit they've had experiences with extraterrestrials, let alone mention the Ashtar Command or Galactic Federation, for fear of absolute rejection or scrutiny beyond considerate measure.

Why? It challenges the paradigms of everyone, including the experiencer. What if you had contact and only felt a vibration instead of any names or titles? What if someone told you that could be the Ashtar Command or Galactic Federation? What would you do? How would you feel? Would you remain aloof from others or seek help from qualified or recommended sources?near death experience, spiritual transformation experience, et contactee

So why are you here? I mean reading this webpage right now. Can you see the breadcrumbs along the trail? Be Here Now is not just a book, it is a credo for consciousness. Just notice them for a moment and reflect on your awareness of the process. This is better than the Rabbit Hole and offers the opportunity to really Be Here Now. Th book was my first real 'connection' to another that made sense - click on the image to the right. The answer to the larger question (why am I here?) I can help with through transformational life coaching and personal gifts beyond the 'normal' coaching modalities.

I've worked with hundreds of folks over the years privately by 'divine guidance' (those who've just shown up and need help) and referrals from those who know my capability and concern for those who've opened up a can of worms they weren't intending to open. Words won't instill the trust one needs to share such intimate experiences, but at least they open the door to the possibilities that it could happen.

To the left is an interview of a long-time UFO investigator and personal friend, Jim  Dilettoso. He has been on numerous television shows regarding his expertise in the UFO phenomena and has had his own contactee and spiritually transformative experiences. He and I were at the first International UFO Congress in Tucson, AZ in 1991. This clip was from a conference in Sedona in 1992, so you can see I've been at this discovery process for a while. You can rely on some experience and history within the realms of investigative reporting with an open mind and heart. Always question, though.

People need to have the opportunity to grow and understanding their own nature without feeling like they are an outcast or social misfit because their experience is so different than most of the general public. I've been down these roads already, an ongoing contactee since childhood, and have the trials and tribulations to prove it. You'll find working with me provides a safety net you might not know exists yet.

Garnering the understanding of a larger perspective of life on planet earth is overwhelming to some, especially when they are among critics and skeptics that challenge one's experiences. Responses to contact are as varied as the types of contact, but one thing remains consistent - we are controlled by our fears.

How deeply do you love yourself? Is it unconditional? If you are like most people, probably not. Even I don't love myself unconditionally, but I'm getting there. Watch the video to your right and pay attention to the message.

The journey we are on entails the exposure of obfuscation. The universe within us and   around us has no secrets… no demand of our allegiance… yet it demands our allegiance if we intend to be the change and example harmony among people and planet in our lifetimes. This is our edict for now… love your neighbor as yourself.

abductee, contactee, near-death, spiritually transformative experiencesBeing authentic, caring and observant is a challenge in every moment, every thought and action. We often engage the circuitous defensive nature of the little self in our quest to be bigger, not realizing the Self (cosmically-attuned) is within reach and takes us to a much bigger playing field we were designed to engage. When one shows up as an example of an attempt to epitomize a ‘belief system’ they are often stiff-armed in an attempt to remain comfortable in personal deception or ignorance. We learn who to trust over time.

Many experiencers find this kind of behavior [denial and rejection] far too often and need help dealing with the skepticism and the travails of living with the knowledge of a separate reality, or so many would have them believe. It's sad to think that such behavior still happens in today's world, but it does. I'm here to offer safety and solace. You can be who you are without feeling like you are under the microscope.

I think it is safe to say that there is an awareness of cosmic consciousness condensed into form.. us. Each one of us has the opportunity to recognize our Origin – and to acknowledge that place of Origin in each other. My signature has reflected this place for several decades... 'Namaste' means (updated) "the light in me recognizes the light in you and we are one in it." I produced and hosted a television show in the early 90s that reflected on how people from all walks of life overcome inner and outer fears.